I feel like if I pray hard enough or do something I can somehow revive my loved one. Am I going crazy?

by Jason on January 6, 2013

This is happening because you are in the midst of the “Bargaining” stage of grief.

Conventionally there are 5 stages of grief when a loss occurs. These are universal in nature and apply to everyone (although not always in consecutive order). The fundamental stages of grief in most bereavement stages are:

1. Shock & Denial
2. Pain & Guilt
3. Anger & Bargaining
4. Depression & Loneliness
5. Acceptance

I’m not diagnosing you here but from everything you’re telling me, these emotions you’re describing sound very targetted towards the Anger/Bargaining stage.

I’m very sorry for your loss. Bereavement is perhaps the hardest thing to go through because there is not salvation the can bring back a loved one. The only salvation is ultimately working towards resolution and finding acceptance in your circumstance.

I wish you all the best and truly hope for your gentle recovery during this difficult time.



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